Take Some 1:1 Time with Your Partner
I know it’s been challenging to get 1:1 time with your partner during this time, especially if you have kids at home. Jeff and I are used to getting away during the trips I earn through Beachbody. Unfortunately, they’ve all been cancelled thanks to COVID so it’s been hard to find quality time together.
We did get away for an overnight trip to Oak Creek and Sedona when it was warmer out. It was nice to have some time to ourselves (and Ivy) so we could reconnect.
We also got our old bikes tuned up and have been trying to go for Sunday morning bike rides. We’ll head to the bagel shop for breakfast and then ride home before the kids get up. It’s been great!
Jeff and I are also walking Ivy more, which she’s loving. It’s quiet evening time where we can decompress from the day and just talk about life.
All in all, I know everyone is struggling so here are some other ways you can consciously connect with your partner more regularly.
Make Shopping a Date
You’re heading to Costco or the grocery store anyway, why not make it a date? Grab a quick bite to eat first, then do your shopping together. Or even make the shopping itself your date night, walking up and down the aisles to find something new to cook together.
Try a Staycation
If you can’t get out of town, head to a hotel for just a night. If you have kids, bring them along–and get them their own adjoining hotel room. You’ll all do well to have a nice change of scenery.
Make Mornings Sacred
If getting away just isn’t possible, make mornings on your back patio your “date” time. Quiet mornings together are perfect for connecting before the kids get up and work gets busy. If that doesn’t work, maybe lunch time is better–especially if you’re both working from home.
Have a Movie Date
Depending on the age of your kids, you can lock yourselves in the den or your bedroom and have older kids watch the younger kids so you and your partner can have a movie night alone. Each of you could pick out one and make it a double feature!
Right now is a really stressful time for so many; it’s your partner that should bring you peace, that you should be able to vent to and connect with. Make it a point to do so regularly for a stronger partnership to get through this tough time.
